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A Thought for Today

Love is an act of giving. Giving is an act of love.

 

Good grief, didn't we do this end-of-the-year thing just a few days ago? How can a year possibly go by so quickly? And just what did happen at "A Safe Place to Land" during the course of the year 2000? 

On the surface, not a whole lot. We spoke quite a bit about the new web site, "Stanyan House", but couldn't get it on-line before year end. Rod and I have promised each other that 2001 is the year - we've set a date and we'll make it this time around, I promise you.

Most of the site activity this year has been under the hood, so to speak. Earlier in the year we had a major data loss which resulted in having to restore almost a year's worth of Flight Plans to the archive section of the site. Boring and time consuming work, but something that just had to be done.

Thanks to the generosity of Melinda Smith we launched a mirror site, based in the USA, which hopefully has provided faster access to all our stateside readers. No small undertaking this - every single file on the original ASPTL site had to be edited to allow for the eccentricities of the UNIX operating system. Both servers have behaved beautifully over the past few months so our technical difficulties are a thing of the past  - until the next time!

Highlight of the year? Without doubt the mail I received from Rod last week:

Dear Ken,
Finally 2 concerts to announce.
R

OK, so maybe it wasn't the chattiest letter I've ever received but who cares? I now know it's possible to laugh and cry at the same time because that's exactly what I did when I heard the news. And what wouldn't I give to be in Chicago in March, 2001? I hope those of you lucky enough to be able to get there have already bought your tickets because I have a feeling they're going to be in short supply pretty soon.

On a personal note my daughters 21st birthday was definitely the highlight of my year and to celebrate the occasion I've posted below a photo taken at their party. I'm enormously proud of all three of my girls; without their support and understanding nothing much would ever get done around here so thanks to them for putting up with me during the course of the year.    

             Megan, Priscilla, Ken & Nicola Blackie - 30th September, 2000

Thanks to all of you who continue to write in to both Rod and I - your letters and submissions to the various columns are always interesting and contribute immeasurably to the success of this site. Thanks also those who pitch in so willingly to help with the odd task that needs an additional pair of hands.

Finally, thanks to Rod for giving of himself so selflessly over the past couple of years. I've visited quite a few celebrity sites recently and I can assure you no-one puts more time and effort into ensuring fresh and topical content than does Rod. Thank you, my friend, it's much appreciated by all who visit here.

So, onwards into 2001 and may it be a good year for all of you. Let's see, we have the concerts to look forward to, at least one new book and probably some CD's as well. Yup, it's going to be a good one!

I'll see you then.

                                - Ken, Johannesburg, December 27

notable birthdays John Amos o Gerard Depardieu o Marlene Dietrich o 'Howdy Doody' o Tovah Feldshuh o Sydney Greenstreet o Rich Jones o Michael Joseph o David Knopfler o Eva LaRue o Oscar Levant o Dr. William Masters o Heather O'Rourke o Louis Pasteur o Cokie Roberts o Roy White 
Rod's random thoughts Don’t be too quick to question everything. There are wild roses that have bloomed far into December seemingly without reason.

There are no wise men. Only men and women who go on gaining wisdom.

Most of our needs should far exceed our grasp. Or what are needs for?

FOR A SON AT CHRISTMAS

When Christmas comes around this year, I’d like to give you something that you least expect: your father’s wisdom. If, indeed, he’s yet acquired enough to share. Your father’s charity, if he can truly say he has done nothing all these years to harm his fellow man. Your father’s understanding, if he understands your needs well enough to listen to whole paragraphs of your young troubles without judging you mid-sentence. Your father’s absolution, though he has yet to be absolved for the recklessness he’s passed down to you both knowingly and unknowingly. Your father’s future, if he can see untroubled days ahead. Your father’s needs, that you might meet the ones he never filled himself.

I hope, though, that your father, your old man, is not so selfish as to burden you with his unanswered prayers. You will need all the God that you can get to answer some of those requests you are making now and many you have not thought up yet, but will.

                           - adapted from "An Outstretched Hand," 1980

© 1971, 1980, 1986, 2000 by Stanyan Music Group & Rod McKuen. All Rights Reserved
Birthday research by Wade Alexander o Poetry from the collection of Jay Hagan o Coordinated by Melinda Smith
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