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A Thought for Today

You can go home again, but don’t unless you’re willing to pay your own way.

 

TO BEGIN WITH

Working on the mail and polishing off a basil martini or two. Maybe I’ll provide you with the recipe for that delicious drink and some other goodies next week.

.ASK ROD

THE DATING GAME

Rod, Imagine my amazement as I was surfing the Internet, to come across two videos of you on the Dating Game on You Tube. Whatever possessed you to go on the show?

So, how did the date go? Linda Hill, Smithfield, RI


Dear Linda, The same thing that 'possessed' Harrison Ford, Tom Selleck, Dustin Hoffman. Keith Carradine, Sally Field, Jack Nicholson, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Anthony Perkins, Russ Tamblyn, Ron Howard, Dusty Springfield, Jon Voight, James Cahn, Nick Adams and dozens of young actors and performers struggling for any kind of exposure at the time.

Even more important, in addition to a Screen Actors Guild scale payment each of us got a set of Encyclopedia Britannica which could be hocked for a couple of hundred bucks. It kept us off the unemployment line, put food on the table and helped pay the rent. In short, it was a job. As a guy who's been working since age 12 (my employment has included grave digging in Denver, cookie catching at Nabisco in Oakland, sheep hoarding in Billings, rodeoing in Cheyenne and Calgary. Selling blood –– and myself in New York City, shoe clerking at Payless in Portland and log-jamming in both Washington and Oregon) thirty minutes on a nationally broadcasted game show was one of my easier tasks –– especially when the young entertainment medium called television had only so many jobs to go around. Would I have rather done an episode of Alfred Hitchcock Presents? Yep, but work was work.

You see, in addition to making a living, I had this other habit that didn't pay very well (if at all –– till I learned how to make it pay) I was a practicing poet and songwriter. I can't think of anything I wouldn't have done to be able to afford the luxury and joy of being able to devote as much time as possible to writing. Do I regret the four or five times I appeared on The Dating Game? Absolutely not. And not just for the reasons sighted above; with the advent of the Internet it gives judgmental people like yourself an opportunity to vent. Although I admit yours is the first letter that inquired, "Whatever possessed you" as if it was a heinous act akin to murder or armed robbery.

How did the date go? I'd love to be able to say, 'I popped the question the first night and we've been happily married ever since.' No such luck. The first date went badly and I never followed up on any of the others. The rule was that if you don't take advantage of the date and trip within a year then the contestant got the trip with a beau of her choice. I like to think my refusal caused a spark or two with one or more deserving couples. All my best to you and yours Linda, that naughty Dating Game guy, Rod

MUSIC TO WORK OUT TO

Rod, After many years of absence, I happened to Google your name and ran across flight plan. I was very gratified to find it.

An interesting thing happened recently. I read and write poetry and also an actor (no, I won't ask you to read any). On the occasion of the 40th anniversary of my 21st birthday, I wanted to read something special at my local poetry gathering, and to me, that is always Rod McKuen. I happened to pull out my copy of "Listen to the Warm", and there on the inside cover was an inscription from an old love when she gave the book to me on my 21st birthday. I have read (and of course always credited you) your stuff many times over the years at poetry gatherings. For this occasion I chose a couple of my favorites to read: "A Cat named Sloopy', and "The Art of Catching Trains"

Today while working out in my garage I decided to play some of my RM cassettes, but alas, not much quality left after all these years. I especially was distressed when I found my favorite "Live at Carnegie Hall' was damaged. (need to replace with CD's if they have been remastered into them) Anyway, I got to thinking that THIS is quality; THIS is what everyone should be listening to still today - perhaps especially today. Your message in the one "---and it makes me cry to see the things some men do to one another etc." is SO profound. The world still very much needs the message of Rod McKuen. I do hope you will considering touring more, and, perhaps now after these years, a '60 minutes' or show of its ilk would consider an interview, anything to get the name and message of Rod McKuen out there again. We NEED a Rod McKuen resurgence.

But, I digress, anyway, I was going thru an old file cabinet and a magazine was stuck inside (and this is at the exact time that I was playing your music). It was a "Writers Digest" from February 1984 with you on the cover and an article about 'finding your poet's voice'. Well, that was too much of a coincidence for me, so I knew I had to at least attempt to contact you.

An agent I used to have years ago, (and I still hear it on occasion) stated she thought I sounded "exactly like Rod McKuen” even to the point that instead of calling me by name she would say Rod. I probably have most all of your material, and have had the honor of seeing you in person twice many years ago. So, yes, I am an unabashed RM fan. Thank you for your great work over the years. You have left the people of the world an amazing legacy, one to be emulated and praised. Take care of YOU!


Dear Jack, Thanks so much for your thoughtful letter. All those references that trigger good memories for me . . . where to begin?

Because so much of my early life was spent moving from place to place, job to job, I’m still somewhat of a hobo at heart and so The Art of Catching Trains is as paramount in my life today as it was when it was first written so many years ago. Most of the time I was an illegal traveler, hopping freight trains and bunking in boxcars as I towned to town around the American west. In later years when I could afford a seat or birth on a sleek passenger train or joined the jet set as my life got faster I always secretly missed the romance of the rails close up. I still do.

I go on fighting the good fight against the things men do and it’s a battle we all need to engage in because the banners of indifference, hostility and bigotry still wave everywhere.

As for touring more, I’d enjoy that and there are still plenty of venues, big and small, left where I could give the kind of concerts I would like to but I’ve outlived all the promoters who used to present me around the country and around the world. The presenters and producers of today are a younger crowd and the McKuen name doesn’t ring any bells for them. In these tough economic times it will probably be even harder to convince bookers to take a chance on the ‘new unknown Rod Whatshisname.’ Why aren’t you a concert producer, Jack? We need more than a Rod McKuen resurgence, what we really need is more promoters your age. I still make appearances, do shows and give concerts –– just not on the scale I’d like to.

Near the end of the year I have a supper club gig in Palm Springs and I’ve announced that one of the shows will be an all request event, both The Things Men Do and the Art of Catching trains look like they will make the final cut so if you have a hankering to trade the hills of Oklahoma for the California desert one weekend in November you’re more than welcome to stop by.

Here’s another idea, since folks think you sound like me (and you have the added advantage of being fifteen years younger) you might consider mounting your own Rendezvous with Rod tour. Just a thought. Hope you have better luck getting an agent than I do.

As for The Carnegie Hall album, a truncated version made its way to CD a decade ago and sold out. The complete concert, including tracks that didn’t even make the original double LP set is due for digital remastering one day soon. Meanwhile complete versions of Live in London and The Amsterdam Concert are available on CD from Stanyanhouse.com and you can check out the track listings at that website.

Thanks for all the compliments and comments Jack, glad you Googled me . . . I’m richer for it and all smiles. Keep your head up and keep singing, every hand and heart and song is needed in what often seems like an increasingly hostile and impersonal world. It’s really only as uncaring and impersonal as we make it. With affection, Rod

OCEANS ELEVEN

Hello Rod, I have been trying to find your album The Sea and cannot find on CD, Tape other than an LP. Has anyone put it on a put on a CD Thanks and hope you are well. A. Hucke

Dear A Hucke, You can usually find copies of "The Sea" CD on Amazon or E-Bay. I’m hanging well, thanks for asking and for writing. Good hunting. Best Regards, Rod

RM 7/25/08

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SUNDAY 27 July

Hilaire Belloc o Thomas Campbell o Donald Crisp o Anton Dolin o Leo Durocher o Peggy Fleming o Bobbie Gentry o Elizabeth Hardwick o Homer (Homer & Jethro) o Norman Lear o Maureen McGovern o Julian McMahon o Alex Rodriguez o Tony Tanner o Betty Thomas o Jerry Van Dyke o Keenan Wynn

Rod's random thoughts Hills have never worried me, it’s the valley’s that are traitorous.

Love, like any other four-letter word should be used with discretion.

Meditation is refortification.

IN CASE YOU DIDN'T KNOW

Some days up ahead
will come down empty
and some years fuller
than the fullest one
we have known before.

Today has been
the best day yet.
                            I thought
you ought to know that,
and I thought it time
that I said thank you
for whatever might have
passed between us
that in your mind
you might have felt
missed my attention.

It didn't
and it doesn't
and it won't.

Thank you
for the everydays
that you make
                       into holidays.

I close up
more often now,
not just to you
but even to myself
           within myself.

I know I should
be always open.
At least I ought to make
                      a better try.

I will.

-from the 1974 U. S. edition of "Moment to Moment"

 
    AND FINALLY

Guess we are down to only a few more weeks of bar-b-que weather so make the most of it. Get outside and play, but do so carefully.

RM Holmby Hills Ca / July 26, 2008 12:20AM PDST

 
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