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Rod & Kubby. Photo by Bob Gentry, ©2002 by Stanyan Entertainment Group.

A Thought for Today

Character is everything; don’t let anyone undermine yours.

 

.ASK ROD

Few people like to hear it like it is, so I’ll probably make an enemy or two with my answer to this first letter.

ROD & ROD

In our busy lives, time seems to fly by and then one day a thought comes to mind of something or someone from long ago. I recently purchased Rod Stewart's new album "it had to be you" and as I sat down to listen, I tried to figure out why it made me feel so at peace...I couldn't put my finger on it for several days...then I remembered!!!! It's because the songs reminded me of the times I listened to your poems and music...I must say my favorite song of yours is "Jean".

I just want to say thank you for the wonderful poems and your music...they have brought me great comfort. Mary Eggers


Dear Mary: Even though it takes two Rod's to staff your 'peace' I'm thrilled to be one of them and to be in the company of Mr. Stewart.

I've been a fan of that other Rod since the Small Faces days. My problem with his newest album "It Had to be You" is that it lacks the drive of "Maggie May," the familiarity of his Brazilian borrowing of "Do You Think I'm Sexy," the Bob Dylan paraphrase of "Forever Young" or the Jimmy Wakley runoff of "Have You Ever Been Lonely."

Rod Stewart is an artist who, when he trusts his own instincts and commitment, always comes up with something interesting and relevant. At the risk of being considered a spoilsport, a Tony Bennett, Rosemary Clooney or Frank Sinatra he aint. The songs of our great American songwriters demand more passion and honest lyric interpretation than Stewart's effortless run-through on his Great American Songbook album affords.

This is by no means a review of his newest album – or maybe it is – I love all of those songs and I hoped for and expected a better reading of them than Mr. Stewart gave us. God, and everyone else, knows that this talented and much loved artist is capable of better work. However (and this is no small caveat) if this album works for you, that's all that matters.

I appreciate your comments on my work and particularly 'Jean,' but as someone who continues to try and get things right I honestly believe my best performance of "Jean" was last Saturday night in concert in Illinois. The next time I sing it I'll make it better.

Thanks for your letter and for the affirmation on my work. I send you my affection and more. Warmly, Rod

SECRETS OF THE ARCHIVES

Where to start. I guess thank you is the best I can do. My first memory of your work was listening to your Birthday concert in Carnegie Hall. I was about 8. That was 22 years ago. In all that time, I have never once seen you in concert, or even in an interview... So I spend every day at work going onto your site, reading "Today's Flight Plan", and all the archives.

There are 2 things I would love to see done now that you are using the web and gone digital. The first is a simple button at the bottom of every flight plan that could take you to the next day’s entry. Please, it would save heavy users as myself a lot of time, instead of going to "Search", or "Archives".

The second is more demanding, but believe me, all your fans will buy one: A CD-ROM with all your written work on it. Done year-by-year, or book-by-book. All compiled together in one place.

Please give it serious consideration Regards, Jason


Dear Jason: I'm glad you stumbled onto A Safe Place to Land and are perusing the archives. Thanks for your nice comments.

One of your wishes has already been addressed and in a much more useful way than you suggested. Our Webmaster Ken really did a great job designing the archives and here's how you can see Flight Plans in sequence.

1. Click on Flight Plan Archives. The following choices will pop up:

2002 Archives
2001 Archives
2000 Archives
1999 Archives
1998 Archives

2. Click on the year of your choice and wait a very short time for it to load. You will be presented with a list of Flight Plans for every day of that year. Scroll to the month you'd like to choose then click on the date you want and up pops the correct FP. When you've finished, click the back arrow of your browser and choose the next date (in any sequence you desire.)

3. Drop our Webmaster a note at kenb@mckuen.com and thank him for a job well done.

As for putting my entire body of work on a single CD ROM? I don't think so. As writers and artists we live off the hard won income from our royalties, so don’t be such a cheapskate, Jason, buy a book once in a while. Here's a link to Dwight Michael's' newly designed (and very nicely I might add) Stanyan By Mail website. It's got stuff nobody else has and he's adding new material to it every day.

http://www.stanyanbymail.com/

Soon you'll be able to click on a book jacket featured on Stanyan By Mail and the title of every poem contained in it will appear before your eyes. It's lots of work putting a site like this together and a week or so ago Dwight even dropped a hint on the Message Board that he could use some outside help in having one or more persons lend a hand with typing the titles of the poems in each of my books (alas so far no one has taken him up on the request so there goes another of my weekends.) Last week I sat down and listed the song titles on a hundred or so Stanyan CD's he'll be posting soon.

Susan Badger who did such a superb job of copy-editing and proofreading my book A Safe Place to Land has been proofing copy for Dwight and photographer Val Riolo (you'll be seeing a lot of his work in future Flight Plans) helped out with the scans.

Thanks for the good suggestions Jason. And I like the idea of a 30 year old going through my archives on a daily basis.

And guess what, I’m not opposed to the CD ROM idea . . . guess it’s hard for me to think of putting all my eggs in one basket. Especially since some of my eggs aren’t as ‘fresh’ as they should be. Luv, Rod

THANKS

Dear Rod: My whole life changed. I was engaged to a wonderful boy. And then he went to war. We both felt it was wrong but we did the "right thing". We wrote letters and planed our future. Your poetry was in both of our letters to each other. And with rose-colored glasses we planned our future. We would have kids, a house, and a dog ( we were going to, but . . .) Afterward the one thing that would comfort me was your books and records. It took me till I was 40 to trust love again. But, David came along. He is my rock, he is my husband. But, Rod you are part of my soul. H. Goodboe.

Dear HG: What a thoughtful letter.

All of us have setbacks with the most positive of plans but you are living proof that more than one chance comes along during this journey we call life.

You sound very happy with David being your rock and while I’m at it, thanks for letting me be a part of your life. I believe that all of us on this earth are meant to be interdependent . . and isn’t that nice. Warmly, Rod

FINDING HER FATHER

I wanted to tell you how much I admire your courage and strength. I just found my possible biological father a few months ago. Even though both of us have decided to do the DNA after the first of the year, we are inseparable over the phone due to the distance in states. We are truly best friends now due to this and will forever be.

Again thank you for the courage and allowing yourself to pass it on to others, Tamra


Dear Tamra: Congratulations on your discovery. And on YOUR courage to start a valuable journey. I've said it many times but it still remains true, knowing where you came from helps to show you where you're going.

Don't give me too much credit for courage and strength in writing Finding My Father. It was curiosity more than anything else that made me want to discover my roots. I hoped that by writing about my search I could make it easier for others with the same quandary and curiosity to discover their origins.

Again my congratulations and no matter what the outcome you'll never be sorry you made this attempt. Warmly, Rod

THE LOST LETTER

Dear Rod, I wrote the attached letter for you a few years ago. I never received a response and hadn't given it much thought until today. I stumbled across your website and found your email address. It's a few years late in coming, but I hope this letters finds you happy and healthy. Without sounding like some star crazed groupie.

I just wanted to express my gratitude. The power of your work has always touched me and remains a constant presence in my life. Like an old trusted friend, I turn to you in times of trouble and you have never let me down. Kindest regards, Jeanette Hermann


Dear Jeanette: Thanks for writing to tell me you tracked down the answer to your ‘missing letter’ in Ask Rod. I’m sure more than one person has written to me here then failed to keep a lookout on the Flight Plan for an answer.

And thanks for asking after my health. I'm healthy, happy and enjoying myself a lot. I've had two concerts and been part of two additional all star performances in the last ten days and it has helped provide me with a very natural high; one difficult to come down from. Letters like yours extend the euphoria that concert audience’s start. Thanks again. With affection, Rod

RECORDINGS FOR THE BLIND

Rod I work with a lot of sight impaired persons who love your work. They always ask me if you have any books on tape that they can listen to. They say it is not the same when
someone else reads your material to them, it is not like you doing your own readings. I have not been able to locate any. Do you have any out there I am missing, or will you have any available soon? Ron Coine


Dear Ron: This is something I've wanted to do for a long time. I lack the resources at the moment but I'm hoping one day to get the funding for just such a project. Before the National Endowment for the Arts budget was cut so drastically there were plans to embark on a series of recordings that would have ended with all of my work being made available on tape through Recordings for the Blind and The Library of Congress.

I have every confidence that sooner or later private funding will come through to make my dream of the complete project possible. I'm keeping your e-mail address on file so that when I know more you will too. Meanwhile if you have any ideas let me know. Thanks for reviving a pet concern of mine. Warmly, Rod

Tomorrow our Webmaster Ken Blackie presents his weekly “This One Does it For Me". Join me in finding out what he’s up to.

Sleep warm and if you are planning to travel on the highway this Thanksgiving weekend, please drive carefully. Road rage is bad enough with adolescents, adults definitely know better.

RM 11/26/2002 2:50 AM PST

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ROD McKUEN CONCERTS & APPEARANCES

notable birthdays Lefty Gomez o Robert Goulet o Eugene Ionesco o Eugene Istomin o Scott Jacoby o Shawn Kemp o Rich Little o Lorene Lortie o Jacki McDonald o Marian Mercer o Eric Sevareid o Tina Turner o Emlyn Williams

And gone, but never forgotten, the beloved father of Charlie Brown & the gang, Charles Schulz was born this day in 1922. Happy Birthday Charles & Charlie.

Rod's random thoughts The man who's dead to dreaming lives within a cloud of his own making and so his chance of entering the stratosphere is scant.

The lifetime I have left I open up to you to tread upon and travel through, you pave the road I'll follow, you build the bridge I'll test it first.

– from "Front Runner"

Our springs are all confusing, our summers slow and easy, our autumns are a worry and our winters are too short.

TWO POEMS FROM ALONE

Living with Darkness

I can be happy
in the dark.
I can live with it.
I can turn once,
              twice,
       three times around
in the dark
before my eyes become
adjusted to the blackness
and not be frightened
              anymore.

Frightened,
I can be elated
at being left alone
when the alternative
is being with just anyone.

Video Tape

I let go. I do.
You should see me
in the middle night
moving in on strangers
for the kill
      or the caress,
administering
to the newfound friend
my version of
      the kiss of life.

You should view
the front part of my head
as it calls back you
while I’m using
all those bodies new
and never seen again.

-from “Alone”, 1975

 
© 1975, 1980, 2002 by Stanyan Music Group & Rod McKuen. All Rights Reserved
Birthday research by Wade Alexander o Poetry from the collection of Jay Hagan o Coordinated by Melinda Smith o Sound & Fury Dr. Eric Yeager o Webmaster Ken Blackie
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