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South African concert dates announced. Click here for details.

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Amsterdam concert date announced. Click here for details.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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A Thought for Today

Don’t squander your strength on worry.

 

TO BEGIN WITH

It’s that time of year again. The past several weeks I’ve gotten around a hundred notes from students doing term papers on my work; it pleases me a lot and I’m only too happy to answer their questions. Last week I printed a letter from a music major at Leeds University in England and to start of this edition of Ask Rod, here’s a query from a drama student at New York University.

.ASK ROD

MORE QUESTIONS FOR A UNIVERSITY PAPER

Dear Rod, My name is Grace Glass; I'm a Drama student at New York University. I'm almost finished with my essay class, thank goodness, and our final essay of the year is to be about a modern artist of our choosing. I chose you because I've admired your work for years. I've always loved music best and I've been a closet poet since I was twelve so I suppose I recognized something of a kindred spirit in you. My professor really encouraged me to reach out to you with a few questions. I'm a very shy person, but eventually I worked up the courage for this e-mail. My questions are below, I'd be honored if you'd answer one or all or any of them. Kindest regards, Grace

Dear Grace, Here you go. Thanks for asking and for the compliments.

What's the most pleasurable way for you to spend $20?
Adding a few more vinyl LP's to my collection.

What are some ways people have habitually misunderstood you?
I don't feel misunderstood. People either 'get it' or they don't. Fortunately enough people seem to have gotten it over the years to enable me to continue moving ahead through the decades.

When did you first think, 'Ah! The real New York'?
The minute I hit the streets of that one of a kind city on foot.

What will you admit is an undeniable pleasure of being an American?
Just being here. I'm not ashamed of taking the advantages and pleasures of my country for granted because so many people before me have lived, worked and died to make it all possible.

What do you tell yourself to do with your face when you are being photographed?
Make faces, or wait for the photographer's instructions. There is no such thing as a natural photograph unless you are unaware of the camera and cameraman.

Which household chore is good for the soul? Which should be avoided at all costs?
Watering the plants indoors and out. As for chores to avoid it must be the sorting of piles of accumulated junk since over the years I seem to have become an expert at it. Ah, but I wish it wasn't so.

Can you describe a book or album cover that fascinated you in your youth?
Walt Whitman's “Leaves of Grass.” The Beatles Butcher Shop cover which had to be recalled and pasted over -- but not before I got my copy.

What is the difference between April and September, knowing that both contain the mild weather of the turning seasons?
April signals the beginning of the year and September the wrapping up. Since I was born in April it was a beginning for me too.

Good luck with your paper Grace and don’t forget to send me a copy. Incidentally, don't be put off by feeling shy or introverted. Everyone is. Some of us just keep it a secret better than others.
Warmly, Rod

eGAD! LAST WEEK TWITTERING, WHAT’S NEXT?

Hello, I’m ever hopeful that all of Rod McKuen’s books might at some point be available for the Amazon Kindle eReader, or at least in some format that can be converted for use on the Kindle. Please tell me my hope isn’t in vain. I have the hardbound editions and would love to also own the digital versions. Thank you. All the best, Pamela Haworth

Dear Pamela, While I own all of the rights to my books I haven't yet explored the idea of making them available on Kindle eReader. It's a thought, but with so many other things in the works this "Army Of 1" hasn't got around to contacting Amazon yet. Guess if enough people are interested Amazon will contact me and I hope they do. Thanks for asking, Pamela. All My Best, Rod

REDISCOVERY

Hello, I do hesitate to call you Rod, it seems it should be Mr. McKuen - you know, out of respect. I was unpacking a box of books, and there you were staring up at me. Oh, my how you filled my mind (heart and soul) during the 70's.

The albums have long disappeared, but the books will never leave me. I'm getting older now, but still young enough to stop and let you speak to me as only you can. Thanks for this moment, thanks for being a part of my life. With care, Maggie


Dear Maggie, And thank you. It not only takes two to tango but a writer without a reader doesn't mean very much. Glad for the rediscovery and even more pleased that we're both still here to appreciate it.

Believe me, during my seventies I'm still delighted you stumbled onto me during the 1970's. All my best to you & thanks for taking the time to write. By the way, since we’re old friends so to speak I see no reason for you to address me as “Mr.” Warmly, Rod

AMSTERDAM IN MAY

Hi Rod, You know, it's only a short ferry trip across the water to England from Amsterdam. Any chance in the future you might do that? I have a lovely living room you could appear in :))) xx Annie

Dear Annie, We're still working on a London appearance. Who knows, maybe next year. But since it's just across the channel how about you hopping the pond this year to Amsterdam. Just a thought. And, thanks for the personal invite. Warmly, Rod

FROM AN “ARMY” VOLUNTEER

Hi Rod, At the age of 16, working at the Salvation Army, I stumbled into your work. I found a book of yours called "Listen to the Warm". I brought it home, read it, fell in love with your words, and have been hooked ever since. I am 27 now. At some point I found your page, and I read it almost daily. I want to thank you for keeping up with your page, and hope for many more years of reading it. It brings me inspiration, and some times it's like medicine to my soul. Thank you! Jodi, Philadelphia, PA

Dear Jodi, Thanks for your nice note. It's interesting that you found "Listen To The Warm" while working at the Salvation Army. I consider The Army my spiritual home since you may or may not know I was born at one of The Booth Memorial Homes operated by The Salvation Army.

With everything else that goes on with any typical life sometimes it's tough keeping up with the site since every column I write for it takes the better part of a day –– but I enjoy writing it and based on the feedback I get I feel it's really worth the effort.

All my best to you Jodi and thanks for the kind words. Affectionately, Rod

THE CONSEQUENCES OF HATE

Here is what Michael Savage; owner of Rockstar power drinks has to say about gay people and children with autism. I say we boycott them and not give money to his hate.

"You want me to tell you what makes me sick? When I see two puffy white males kissing each other, I want to puke. When I see two women kissing each other, on the lips, as lovers, I want to vomit."

"When you hear "human rights," think only one thing: someone who wants to rape your son. And you'll get it just right. OK, you got it, right? When you hear "human rights," think only someone who wants to molest your son, and send you to jail if you defend him. Write that down, make a note of it."

"...children's minds are being raped by the homosexual mafia, that's my position. They're raping our children's minds."

"You know what autism is? I'll tell you what autism is. In 99 percent of the cases, it's a brat who hasn't been told to cut the act out. That's what autism is."

Grant Taylor

Dear Grant, I knew there was a reason I only drink Red Bull.

I'd certainly beware and advise my readers to do the same of Mr. Savage's "Rockstar” drink if it pumps up that kind of hate speech.

Not that he'd pay any attention but for the stupid, supercilious Mr. Savages edification; autism is a recognized ailment that sadly affects millions of children worldwide. It's also been proven many times over that children are more likely to be molested by Uncle Fred than the Gay Guy down the block.

If the "Methinks Thou Doth Protest Too Much Michael" is disgusted by women kissing women he has nothing in common with the overwhelming majority of so called Straight Guys who in poll after poll (and not just in Playboy, Hustler and Penthouse) confess to being turned on by Lesbian behavior. A word to the wise Mr. Savage: curb your enthusiasm for visiting Gay Bars if male on male and female on female love play causes you such mental anguish.

As for the rest of us Straight, Gay or I Dunno Yet's you can bet we won't be hoisting any ROCKSTAR energy drinks. And, if my supermarket carries his bottled piss I'll switch to one that doesn't.

But wait, here's a better idea. Lets hit this harbinger of hate where it really hurts; those of you with Costco & Sam's club Memberships how about dashing off a letter to their headquarters asking these large volume purveyors to stop carrying ROCKSTAR drinks. You can Google their corporate address.

I'm against boycotts as a rule but hate speech in any form has to have its consequences. I, for one, can't have the motto "It doesn't matter who you love or how you love but that you love" and not practice what I preach. Love, and I mean it, Rod

HOW TO GET ‘EM

I have the “Live In London” CD, where can I find other music you have recorded?

Dear N. Shooshan, Since so many music stores have gone out of business, the best place to get any of my CD's, LP's, Books etc is still Stanyanhouse.com.

Even if it's something that isn't listed on the site Ben can usually dig it up for you. Thanks for asking, Sincerely, Rod

THE CATCH MORE FLIES WITH VINEGAR APPROACH

Since I can only assume that this is an email not monitored by Rod McKuen, I would appreciate it if whoever, if anyone, checks this email address, would at least send a reply that shows it was received. If not, whoever does the website should remove this fictitious email address. Thank you in advance for the courtesy.

My name is Bob Siqveland. I have in front of me, a signed copy of Listen to the Warm, dated 1967. I have been an ardent fan of yours since then, and I too have recorded and written music. I will turn 65 next month, and my passion in life has been to write a novel. I did write a stream of consciousness book in 2003 and self published. I was at that time very disenchanted with my faith and the Catholic Church in regard to the cover up of Priest pedophiles, and entitled my book, The Immaculate Erection. You could Google it if inclined. In any event, I have just finished what I believe is a worthwhile story and Book which I have entitled, The Wilderness of Time. In the book I would very much like to quote your song, The Hunters, as it describes a woman who “hunters” would find to be vulnerable prey.

My question to you would be, what would I have to do to get your permission to quote your work in my book?

If that is not a possible, I can perhaps edit it out, but even a reply from you would be a thrill for me.

I hope you are in good health and have many more years to bring your passion to your fans.

Kind Regards,

Bob

Here, here now Bob, Why the hostility? Is that any way to ask for permission to use one of my works in a publication of yours?

Otherwise, thanks for the kind comments. FYI, your assumption is wrong. I'm the only one who monitors or reads my e-mail. I'm not sure what your beef is unless you feel I've been a few days late in answering your request. With several hundred e-mails a week you can understand why I'm sometimes a bit tardy when it comes to paring down my responses and never quite emptying my e-mail box.

Here's the skinny on the use of my song lyrics and/or poetry in books. If a major publisher is involved the fee is usually around a hundred bucks with a check for the use being made out to The Elizabeth Taylor AIDS Foundation. It depends really on how much of the work is quoted. Of course the source and copyright information has to be included.

Any reprint requests should be directed to:

helene@helenebluemusic.com

who administers The Stanyan Music Group Copyrights and other McKuen material.

Again Bob, thank you for writing and your obviously prolonged interest in my work. Most of all good luck to you with your own writing –– your novels, stories and music. Kindest Regards and wishing you an early Happy Birthday. Rod

BIRTHDAY WISH

Rod: If you could have anything for your upcoming birthday, what would you chose? Warm wishes, Joyce McConnell

Dear Joyce, I know I should really be unselfish and wish for world peace or an end to hunger but after thinking it over for about a week here’s ‘my druthers;’ I’m in good health, reasonably happy and somewhat content so If I could have anything I wanted for my birthday this year my wish is for about 35 more of the same so I’ll have time to complete the various projects I’ve started and those I’ve yet to hatch up. All My Best Joyce and thanks for asking. Rod

RM April 24, 2009 Previously unpublished

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SATURDAY 25 APRIL

Hank Azaria o Stu Cook o Oliver Cromwell o Ella Fitzgerald o Melissa Hayden o Albert King o Meadowlark Lemon o Guglielmo Marconi o Paul Mazursky o Denny Miller o Edward R. Murrow o Al Pacino o Talia Shire o Bjorn Ulvaeus o Jacob Underwood o Renee Zellweger

SUNDAY 26 APRIL

Gracie Allen o Antonius Marcus Aurelius o John James Audubon o William "Count" Basie o Carol Burnett o Joan Chen o Michael Damian o Duane Eddy o Rudolf Hess o Francis Lai o Jon Lee o Anita Loos o Ma Rainey [Gertrude Pridgett] o Jet Li o C.J. Mitchell o Giorgio Moroder o Russell Nype o I.M. Pei o Bobby Rydell o Douglas Sirk o Koo Stark o Gary Wright

Rod's random thoughts I measure success by the ones who come back.

Love’s clarity of vision is not always 20/20.

Imagination is the ‘a la mode’ of talent.

AFTER LOVE

Was ever a bed so long awaited
        as the one I come to now?
Did ever a heart anticipate
the regulated beat that comes
when life is straight, alive and true
and no love threatens throb or throes?

Was ever a night so starry as
the one I've just come through?
On nights past did I appreciate
the stars and surplus starlet
satellites gossiping and crowding
skies. All that gleaming, luster talk,
audible to my ears only.

Falling out of love was easier than
I thought it might be, you only had
to turn your back. Age, confronted
by indifference
                 can be a magic wand.

I have but a few years and so
much love left, I can ill afford
to waste them on the absent lover.

Was ever a bed so anticipated
as the one I come to now ? Empty,
yes, but for the cat. Even the memories,
going, gone. Ah, the thrill of it all.

-from Rusting in the Rain, 2003

 
    NEARLY THE LAST WORD

Bellingham asks us “Is that "Take Your Child To Work Today"? Or is that "Put Your Child To Work Today"? My Thought: If he or she has returned home to live, it's certainly ought to be the latter.

AND FINALLY

Lots of work this weekend getting ready for the tour and trying to sneak in a recording session or two. Hope you have time to play and do so safely and happily. I’m off to put a couple of baking potatoes in the oven. Sleep warm.

RM Holmby Hills / April 24, 2009 5:43PM

 
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