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A Thought for Today

Winter is a word we choose to remember only vaguely till it blows in all its brilliance.

 

Hard to believe we’re two days away from Christmas and I still haven’t been out shopping. Well, that’s not quite true, I spent yesterday afternoon at my favorite Costco in Burbank. Came home with a case of cat food & one of Mountain Dew, some DVD’s, coffee beans, mouthwash, paper towels, Liquid Plumber, CD’s, Cheer, Contac and a batch of books. Lot’s of life’s necessities, but no gifts.

Lots of impulse items I managed to resist like the stick up lights and new versions of “The Clapper” & “Salad Shooter.” No thanks. I still have enough energy to cross the room & hit the light switch & I can slice and dice in the kitchen with the best of them.

In the checkout line a guy said to me, “ Didn’t you used to be Rod McKuen?” I answered, “I did.” Why lie.

NEW SONGS FROM OLD SONGS

Dear Mr. McKuen: My name is Jonathan Alexander. I am a musician of 5 years. I am 18 years old and in love with life. I have been writing songs for some time now, but one thing always seems to trouble me. Words. I write folk music with a guitar. My music is my lifeblood and soul. Anyway, I'll get right down to it. My mother gave me two books of yours that used to be hers. They were Stanyan Street and Other Sorrows and Listen to the Warm...both of which I absolutely fell in love with the minute I opened them up. Some of the poems that struck me the most, I decided to set to music.

You being a musician yourself, know the fuel that music can provide to words. For this Christmas, I decided to release a CD of some of these songs and your poetry. They are in order: "The Summertime of Days," "Ellen's Eyes," "The Lonely Things," and "Thank you."

Now to the core of the matter. I am not selling these CD’s or making any profit whatsoever and am totally independent. I thought that I'd let you know that I did this. I gave you full credit for the words and included you in the thank you section. I can only hope that this finds you in good spirits and not too angered. Your poetry speaks to me. To tell you the truth, once I set the poetry to music, it was perhaps as if I understood the pieces that much more.

I would love to send you a copy, but noticed on your web page that you don't look over manuscripts or anything of the sort. I can understand because of your busy schedule and whatnot. But I present this to you as a gift of my appreciation. Perhaps if you'd like, I can turn any profit I do make...(which is unlikely) to you or your company.

Please take the time to think about this. I hope that you are not too angered. Thank you for your time. Jonathan Alexander

Dear Jonathon, Thanks for writing me, one of the things I like best about your letter is hearing an 18 year old say he's "in love with life." Me too, Jonathon, and I have a few years on you. I hope you'll strive to keep that feeling. I can't think of better advice to give anyone.

I'm glad you liked my lyrics enough to write music to some of them. Unfortunately there's a slight problem; all four lyrics were songs long before they were published in book form and so they already have music. That's the reason they rhyme and are in the section of my books called "songs." The titles "Twenty-three Songs" in "Listen to the Warm" and "Eight Songs" in "Stanyan Street & Other Sorrows" aren’t arbitrary or meant to be metaphoric.

There are several recordings on "The Lonely Things," "The Summertime of Days" and "Thank You"; and somewhere on an early album I have a version of "Ellen's Eyes". I'd still love to hear your CD and if I like the melodies, perhaps I'll write new words to them. Stranger things than that have happened in my career as a songwriter.

Last year a young man wrote a melody and did a choral arrangement of a poem of mine entitled "Orly Field" and I liked it so much I wrote an additional verse to it and I'll be recording it in the coming year for my next album. I hope this will show you I'm not kidding when I ask you to send me a copy of your CD. There is every chance in the world that aside from the curiosity of hearing another musical interpretation of my words, I’ll like the music enough to write new lyrics.

Enduring collaborations between writers have come from far less. And, I'd like very much to hear what your voice sounds like.

You can send the CD to me at Box G, Beverly Hills, CA 90213. I'll be looking for it. Meanwhile there's no need to write new music to "Seasons in the Sun” :) All the best, Rod

SEA, EARTH & SKY TRILOGY

I have The Sea on CD, and would really love to have the Sky and Earth. Will they ever be put on CD? I grew up with you in the late 60's and your early works with Anita Kerr and San Sebastian Strings were the best.

Thanks for making Love and Romance what it really is. Carol Smith

Dear Carol, Working with Anita Kerr and having her for a friend will always be one of the high points of my life, musically and otherwise. For an answer to your query about 'The Trilogy,' see "The Frequently Asked Questions" at Home Base. Warmest Regards, Rod

HELLO FROM THE PAST

Dear Rod, Nearly fifty years have past since we were classmates at Oakland Tech and were in Sally Reinharts drama class. The class of 1951 will hold a 50th reunion at the Hotel Claremont during the spring of 2001 and hope you will join us.

We held a 45th reunion in Pleasanton several years ago. I have an extra photograph of the Techites in attendance and will send you a copy to your Beverly Hills address. We hope to hear from you soon. Best regards, John Hunt


Dear Jack, As they say on The Net 'sounds like a plan.' I'll make it if I'm able, especially since I was unable to be in Oakland for the 25th reunion. That was my favorite class and I still remember having a wild crush on Sally, despite the fact that she believed nothing would ever come of me.

Please keep me posted and don't forget to send me the photograph of the 45th reunion (identifying the participants, please.) I had a note from Sandy earlier in the year. I answered it but never heard back. Looking forward to seeing you again. Warmest Regards, Rod

REUNION, 2

It sure is good to be back with you! Reading your poetry, listening to your voice. I have missed you, old friend. Do you ever tour in the US anymore? If so, please post a schedule. Thank you very much! Judith

Dear Judith, Thanks. By writing me your E-mail address has gone on my mailing list, so as soon as concerts are scheduled you'll be among the first to know. Welcome Back, Rod

ONCE IN A LIFETIME MOON

Dear Rod, My husband sent this to me from his work. They build satellites there so they're usually informed of neat events like this: Enjoy! Rita

Subject: Watch for it Wednesday Night:

The Special 99 Winter Solstice Moon An astronomical special event not to be missed. By now all of you have probably got this, but here goes anyway! It would be a shame to miss it.

This year will be the first full moon to occur on the winter solstice, Dec.22, commonly called the first day of winter. Since a full moon on the winter solstice is occurring in conjunction with a lunar perigee (point in the moon's orbit that is closest to Earth), the moon will appear about 14% larger than it does at apogee (the point in it's elliptical orbit that is farthest from the Earth). Since the Earth is also several million miles closer to the sun at this time of the year than in the summer, sunlight striking the moon is about 7% stronger making it brighter.

Also, this will be the closest perigee of the Moon of the year since the moon's orbit is constantly deforming. If the weather is clear and there is snow cover where you live, it is believed that even car headlights will be superfluous.

On December 21st. 1866 the Dakota Sioux took advantage of this combination of occurrences and staged a devastating retaliatory ambush on soldiers in the Wyoming Territory.

In laymen's terms it will be a super bright full moon, much more than the usual AND it hasn't happened this way for 133 years! Our ancestors’ 133 years ago saw this. It will be 100 or so years from now till our descendents will see this again.


Dear Rita, No snow here but the light was so strong tonight it lit up all of the front yard, I've been out several times to check it out. All this and up there somewhere over the ocean a team of our astronauts are mending The Hubbell Telescope. This Flight Plan will be late.

Down here Jim Carey's "Man on the Moon," opened everywhere.

The moon on this night was wonderful and there were far more stars than any team could count - each a little dimmer because of that so heavily heavenly illuminated circle.

For those who missed the last full moon of this millennium (assuming you think the new one begins next week) in 2025 the moon will be a few million miles closer. Just think, Rita, we'll be in our 70's (give or take a few decades for one of us.) Love to you and your old man. Rod

HELP/ HEARTBROKEN

Mr. McKuen: What comes to your mind when a heart is broken, trust is lost and just plain sadness lingers? I have lost respect for someone that was very dear to me, and I'm lost. The lies got to be too much and now the loneliness and anger has become my Father, and I'm not sure what to do?

Your writings have been important to him, and most of your poems I really enjoy, and now I can't find it even in my heart to read any. Please help me. Joy


Dear Joy, Hearts are sturdy. It's been my experience that they heal a lot faster than you might think. This old heart has been bruised and bandaged over and over, but it beats on steadily. Hang in there.

If you're free of someone you've lost respect for, good riddance. Thinking of you, Rod

BOB GENTRY

Hi, Rod! I just read the Flight Plan, which reminded me of a question: Edward mentioned a CD that Bob Gentry's group had out and said it was quite good. I inquired around here (middle of Wisconsin, remember) and could find no information on it. Could you provide me with the name of it (if there is more than one, I don't know which one your brother was alluding to)? Or is it being marketed only locally right now? Thanks! Love, Susan, with a smile

PS: Glad your household temp is normal now! :)


Dear Susan, Keep smiling you can order Bob's Moisture CD from Stanyan By Mail. I'll bet you like it, I do. I like what he's doing with the new California edition of Moisture even better. Love, Rod

PS: Me too!

I'M STILL HERE.

Mr. McKuen, I hope and pray that you are still alive and well...and will read this. I have lived and loved all of your words since I was perhaps 6? All that I do know for certain is that my mother would play all of your albums on our house speaker system when my father was away...and she felt less lonely.and I feel the same way today, perhaps because we too, once owned a wonderful cat named Sloopy. She was killed by a neighbor's movers...Sloopy ran onto the moving van and one of the brutes kicked her...my mother still cry's about her... and both my brothers, as well as myself remember her to this day. (This was perhaps in 1975).

I just wanted to let you know that there are people out there such as myself that remember you...and wish to hear more from you. I may be young...but not so very young...and I miss your words...and your music...I do have the CDs that are available to the GP...as well as old albums (albeit very scratched)...and of course I have all of your books of poetry, as well as "Finding My Father"...but I would like nothing more than to hear that you are still here...and hopefully your brother Edward as well. Lee Murray


Dear Lee, I just checked and my pulse is fine. Whew. Edward has just gone off to bed with his favorite cats and he seemed to be OK when he left. If there are any major events regarding his health, I'm sure I'll find out about them on the morrow. Will keep you posted.

What a nice letter. Sorry about Sloopy, that's an awful story. Our animals are so much a part of our lives that losing one is the same as one of our children or a best friend dying.

Give my love and thanks to your mom and brothers, Warmly, Rod

Since the world as we know it ends in nine days (except for those of us with Macs) be especially nice to the people you love this week and sleep warm. See you tomorrow with Pass It Along.

                            - RM 12/23/99 Previously unpublished

notable birthdays Chet Baker o Robert Bly o Jose Greco o Harry Guardino o Corey Haim o Tim Hardin o Elizabeth Hartman o Paul Hornung o Floyd Kaiber o Susan Lucci o Buzz Miller o Ruth Roman o Vincent Sardi, Sr. o Helmut Schmidt o Joan Severance o Harry Shearer o Eddie Vedder
Rod's random thoughts The love of God is love’s highest aspiration.

Quips, like cameras, are seldom at the ready.

Selfishness contracts the heart.

THE 1976 CHRISTMAS CARD

The year
now winding down
I pull my winter coat
a little tighter
and walk out through the snow.

Everywhere the world is waiting
for Father Christmas to come.

I do not think
he’ll disappoint us
this time out.
I think he knows
we’ve earned our toys
our tinsel and out time
to be together peacefully
this year more than ever.

Happy Christmas
to the man in red and white
all the children everywhere
and those who love each other
                      and themselves.

Happy Birthday
to the Christ child
           and the country.

And to you
be happy and be kind
keep Christmas in your heart
be patient. The snow will melt
as our love for all things good
                 will go on growing.

           -
from “The 1976 Animal Concern Calendar & Datebook,” 1975
© 1966, 1976, 1999 by Stanyan Music Group & Rod McKuen. All Rights Reserved
Birthday research by Wade Alexander o Poetry from the collection of Jay Hagan
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