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A Thought for Today

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This One Does It For Me!

Dear Ken,

One of my most cherished possessions is A Book of Days and a Month of Sundays.

I know it's pretty difficult getting hold of a copy so perhaps you could publish something from this wonderful volume in your column one Wednesday.

Love,

Sheila

Nice choice, Sheila. It's been awhile since we featured something from these books so after the introduction, here's a bunch of stuff for you from the November section.

To the Authors from the Author

( Assuming many of you will write in this book along with me. )

Man has his seasons. His own times. And while nature makes the colors change, the moons, the tides, man is more accountable for change than he might know.

A Book of Days can be a diary, a collection of ideas, a series of dates to be remembered, a means of putting order into otherwise orderless life, a storehouse of maxims ( as well as ‘minimums’ ), a secret place to treasure private thoughts, or a book to help rekindle the hearts or mind’s memory.

I have chosen to make my first Book of Days all of the above. Instead of starting with January and following the calendar year - I don’t know anyone who successfully keeps a diary that way - I began this book with my favorite season, autumn, and worked from there through winter, spring, and summer.

You will find no particular year set out in this book, because the memories go back as far as my capacity to remember, the years covered are many. Besides, if you plan to write in this book too, it’s unfair to tell you where to begin or where to leave off.

There is space set out for every day of every month, but if you want to remember whether the third of April of some year fell on a Thursday or a Friday, you’ll have to remember to write in for yourself.

For me, the best part of this book is the Month of Sundays near the end. Sunday is always a good day for me. For one thing, the telephone doesn’t ring. Parts of the day can be given over to God and to leisure ( sleeping late, reading the paper, playing with the animals ).

Like everybody else, I have opinions on just about everything. Sometimes I keep them to myself; more often they wind up in my books, letters, interviews, and conversations. They change even while they are escaping. Collected here are opinions, a little philosophy, some truths I’ve learned, paragraphs that might be thought by some to be overly intimate, and ideas I felt like sharing. And there is plenty of room for your own ideas, memories, dates to remember, diary entries, and, right next to my thoughts, your arguments for or against.

Have fun. I did.

R.M.

Cats

Cats have the best of it
I suppose they always have.
Curled up in autumn
back behind the stove,
swaggering through shrubbery
in the summer months
pirates seeking treasure
be it hapless mouse or moth.

When ready for some human contact
( usually as mealtime draws near )
they’re friendlier to us than foxes
                   or the possum
but they do not extend lap dog submission.
A cuddle and a scratch behind the ear
                    is quite enough

Cats, I reckon, have it all
admiration and an endless sleep
and company only when they want it.

- from "I Never Met a Cat I Didn’t Like," 1982

I'm not sure if these books are still in stock but now that Stanyan House is up and running it's worth stopping by there to check. You can get there by visiting www.stanyanhouse.com

The address for your favorite McKuen songs, poems or memories is, as always, kenb@mckuen.com and I look forward to hearing from you soon.

 - Ken, Johannesburg, South Africa, November 19

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NOVEMBER THOUGHTS

1 - For travelers, a block away, half a world away, home is always over the next hill, always one more mile.

2 - There will be times when many will want a piece of you, but only offer up the whole.

3 - We are chained only by ourselves. Our thoughts and actions are our jailers just as they can be liberating angels that set us free to be ourselves.

4 - Vote ! It entitles you to bitch for the next four years.

5 - Perspective comes when poles are far enough apart to have horizons at both ends.

6 - The sun is a movable target. Aim for something in life a little more steady and less all consuming.

7 - Once I thought dreams were exceptions, not the rule. But that isn’t so - they are so plentiful that they ride by on air. You’ve only to reach out and snatch one from the mist, or from nowhere.

8 - In making up a bed of love, be sure to leave the cushions loose.

9 - Those who travel gentle in the world are seldom recognized as gentlemen by others. It matters not, for gentleness toward another human being is the thin line between personal success and failure for each of us.

10 - Few of us are ready to love anyone else - until we learn to know and love ourselves. That isn’t easy, and it shouldn’t be. It is difficult both to love that much, and seemingly that little.

11 - Those who are dead to dreaming live within a cloud of their own making, and so their chance of entering the stratosphere is scant.

12 - Our country owes us nothing. We could not pay back what she has given us already if we had two new lifetimes left to attempt the job.

13 - The day will come when we export more bread than bullets. That day we’ll know all there is to know of love.

14 - Several men have proven that any man can grow up and become President - some of those same men have also shown us that not every man elected to the office is capable of being President.

15 - If love hasn’t given you wings, do not expect to fly.

16 - To dream is to remain always open.

17 - Wisdom is as slow to come as snow to melt.

18 - Love, at best, is giving what you need to get.

19 - Man is energy. The only energy we have is man.

20 - Without some “think time” we relinquish our quest for knowledge to others and are forced to accept their opinions as our own.

21 - Special mysteries do not worry me as much as what we do to one another beneath the seemingly soft veneer of friendship.

22 - Follow love and you need no other leader.

23 - The few who say so much for all of us with knotted tongues should die in poppy fields, old and withered, used up, done, their last days spent as children once again.

24 - In loving, nothing succeeds like excess. Moderation is a mutual act and should be synchronized.

25 - If I love my fellow man a little more today, tomorrow I’ll move more gently through his space.

26 - We travel such a distance to stand still.

27 - Taking the time to love is, most of all, caring enough to not hold on too tightly and yet not run too loose.

28 - Keep your finger on the country to monitor its pulse, but do not pass a mirror without looking at yourself. Remember that you are the country.

29 - Liking everything leaves little time for liking anything well.

30 - Cats know. They’re as good as bank clerks at sensing loss or gain, better than the clairvoyant at seeing what’s ahead.

 - from "Rod McKuen's Book of Days and a Month of Sundays," 1981

 
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