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I visited the Internet the other day with the slim hope of finding a
reference to you, since I had tried unsuccessfully before. I was delighted to find mckuen.com. Your poetry speaks to me in profound ways. I first encountered your poems in 1994, when I was 22. I found a collection entitled "Alone" - I was captivated. I have the same feelings toward aloneness, loneliness, "the young heart beating in the dark room" and sunlight. Those writings have assisted me during impossible times. Your "Outstretched Hand" has provided a bridge through the darkness.

I own almost every book of your poems, and many records. My favorite poem is "Kearny Street". My second favorite is "Some thoughts for Benson Green on his twenty-seventh birthday". I turn 27 in December. My question is: What thoughts would you have, what advice, for me, as I approach 27? Thank you, and please keep writing. Eric L. Coker

Dear Eric, I turned 27 a long time ago but I remember thinking I was running out of time for everything. A career, finding someone I could love and settle down with, trying to make enough money at odd jobs to support my writing and most of all that I would never have time enough to learn all I wanted to know about, seemingly everything. Guess what? While a little impatience is a good thing, don’t let it be the driving force in your life. Relax a bit, enjoy yourself more.

Your twenties are terrific, but your thirties will be much better in every way. When you reach your forties you’ll discover that anything you experienced before can’t compare with the work, fun and pure living these years bring. Fifty is sobering, you’ll have a momentary twinge but you’ll get over it. You might even discover what it is in life you really want to do. I didn’t and I still don’t know. But it hasn’t stopped me from plodding forward, always open to new ideas and experiences. Here I am in the middle of my sixties and I’m positive my best work is in front and not behind me. I have more energy than ever and yes; I am running out of time. Aren’t we all. You too, Eric --- even at twenty-seven.

The point is you will never have enough time. So what. If I had one piece of advice for anyone your age it would be, STOP AND THINK. Before you do, say, commit to anything. I played most of my life by the seat of my pants and believe me that is no way to navigate something as important as life. Think about the possible ramifications of everything you do. It will keep you honest with yourself. You’ll never be totally satisfied with anything. Sorry. That’s just the way it is. But each mistake you make will make the good experiences better. There will be lots of those.

OK, Eric, Eyes wide open, ears alert, march straight into twenty-seven. You’re in for the time of your life, you lucky bastard. Love, Rod
PS: You wanna hear something strange? (and this is apropos of nothing). When you get to be sixty-five, 27 & 28 year olds of both sexes seem to think you’re terrific. I haven’t worked that one out yet, but I assure you, I’m not complaining. You won’t either when it happens to you.

BARNSTORMING

Rod, If you want a barn, we can get you one...it also has a rainbow painted on it. It's a cool barn and you could store an amazing amount of items in it. Dana & Lee

Dear Dana & Lee, Thanks. Every week or so someone tells me about a barn that’s available. Trouble is I want to build one in my own back yard. What are the logistics of moving your Rainbow Barn? Rod

TEE FOR TWO

Hey. Rod. I collect T-shirts. A friend of mine remembers seeing a Family Circle article from the late 70's about your T-shirt collecting hobby. Is she right? Do you still? If so, what's your favorite? Barb (The T Shirt Lady)

Dear Barb, I still collect T-Shirts in a big way. Have them from all over the world. Some of my favorites include DON’T ROCK THE ROCKETTES! (from the time when those performers staged a successful demonstration against Radio City Music Hall for better compensation; a Tee John Lennon wore that says GIVE PEACE A CHANCE, Frank Sinatra’s sweatshirt from THE OLD BLUE EYES IS BACK sessions. Tee’s from various peace rallies around the world including Tieniman Square and Bosnia and a couple I was involved in during the 60’s. My original olive drab Army issue T. from Basic Training at Ft. Ord (circa 1953.) Anyone sending me a T is usually rewarded with a CD or a book. Have some bizarre ones too, like O. J. MAY BE GUILTY, BUT SO WHAT (!), SAVE THE RAIN FORREST, PISS ON A PROTESTOR and many that can’t be reprinted on this airstrip. Regards, Rod PS: I wear an extra large because they shrink & I don’t.

KOREAN TOUR

Dear Mr Rod, I'm very happy I can write this mail to you. You always give me comfort of spirit through your voice and lyricism. I'm a Korean and I have many albums of yours. There are so many people in my country who like you. So you have a lot of recordings released here, including just recently your Greatest Hits album.

I wish you would come to Korea for concerts, and I hope it will be soon. I will marry at January 17, '99. I am ordering a book and an album. Again, my best wish is to see you in concert in Korea. Yours, Sang-Wook Yoon


Dear Rod McKuen, I have been told you may be coming to The Far East soon for some concerts that will include Korea. We are looking forward to it. You have many fan clubs here. My favorite album of yours is La Mer / The Sea. Sincerely, Kim Ho

Dear Sang-Wook & Kim, There has been some talk by the company that releases my recordings in Korea and Taiwan of doing a Far Eastern tour. I hope it happens. The people in Korea have always been very supportive of my work and it would be a way of saying Thank You and also give me a chance to visit your beautiful country again. Kindest Regards, Rod

BELCHER LANDING & BOSTON

Dear Rod, I heard a recording by you of a poem on a radio station I was listening to. In this poem you spoke of Don, your boyhood friend. At the end you said something to the effect of "I often wonder what happened to Don, and what happened to myself". Sorry for the incorrect quote. The verse stayed with me all these years. I believe it was 1972, the only time I ever heard it.

Seasons in the Sun was terrific, not just that individual work, but the book of verses you did with that title. Also enjoyed when you narrated "Say Goodbye". Would you please either print "Don" for me or let me know where I can find the book it is in? Always been a fan of yours Bill Melville.

Dear Bill, The track you mentioned is called "Belcher Landing" and it’s from a four record set I did with Anita Kerr entitled "The Seasons". Belcher Landing appears on "Summer". I reprinted it  in the Flight Plan of August 7th of this year and it can be downloaded from the archives of this site. Thanks for remembering the documentary "Say Goodbye". It was produced by David Wolper & nominated for a documentary Oscar. Regards to you & Janet. Rod

Dear Rod: I’ve been trying to get hold of and read all of your books. I have 'raided" the library shelves and also was able to buy some of your books at a wonderful local store filled with "precious books". I want to find out if the book you were writing in 1974, "The Word Went Out From Boston" (as mentioned in the author's note in "Moment To Moment") was ever published -- or have I not done my homework? Also, is there any fixed date yet for the release of "A Safe Place To Land"? I think it would be the "ultimate" if we were able to see you in Concert. God Bless you. Nan Peden

Dear Nan, "The Word Went Out From Boston" was never completed; though I’ve saved the original notes from it. Earlier this month on November 9th I used the Flight Plan to print two selections originally intended for that book but published in another. "Flashback Boston" & "North St. Remembered" can both be found in & downloaded from the archives 11/9/98. As to concerts, don’t expect any in the U.S. for awhile since there is still no promoter involved in booking them. "A Safe Place To Land" is scheduled for publication in the fall of 1999. All the Best, Rod



History is still in there punching and occasionally in these parts being punched out. Here’s a little of it, all the same.

Light Up The Sky

Tonight and tomorrow night watch for The Leonid Meteors to produce a shower of light that according to some scientists and astronomers may be one of the most brilliant of the century. The Leonoids, so named because they seem to emanate from the constellation Leo, make an annual appearance, but every 33 years they dip close to the earth and reach their peak. This is it folks, till 2032. Depending on what part of the world you live in there may be one per minute or hundreds per hour. One of the best places to view them is Southeast Asia. There will be live Internet feeds from that part of the world.

In 1833 astronomy writer Agnes Clerke wrote that as many as 240,000 meteors were seen in the nine hours they fell over the eastern United States. Other witnesses at the time reported huge fireballs that left shadows and smoke trails miles long. This year there is some worry that the Leonid shower might pock mark or even disable some of the many satellites circling the globe.

On this date in 1626 St. Peter’s church in Rome was dedicated. In 1820 Longfellow’s first poem is published. Today in 1852 The Duke of Wellington had a grand funeral at St. Paul’s Cathedral. Elton John was conspicuously absent. In 1869 The Suez Canal is formally opened and in 1913 the first ship sailed through the Panama Canal (Alex Drey had a route canal in 1881.)

In 1903, near Kitty Hawk, North Carolina, Wilbur & Orville finally get it up and the air age begins. Sylvia Beach opens the doors of Shakespeare & Company, the first combined English language lending library and bookshop in Paris, in 1919. In 1938 Kay Kayser starts making swing. De Beers of South Africa manufactured the first synthetic diamond in 1959.

Hope all your diamonds are real and your swing through this autumn is warm.

                                                - RM 11/16/98

notable birthdays Mischa Auer o Peter Cook o Danny DeVito o Rock Hudson o Lauren Hutton o Gordon Lightfoot o Alan Charles Mackerras o Dean Paul Martin o Bob Mathias o RuPaul o Bebe Rebozo o Martin Scorsese o Tom Seaver o Lee Strasberg
Rod's random thoughts To write it out is to let it go.

Be grateful for your dreams. The grave holds only sleep.

Optimism is the forehead of beauty.

Never fear life or death, only mere existence.

AN EVENT OF SOME IMPORTANCE

I started up the hill
and there they were.
One of them was hardly twenty,
         the other maybe more.

They were still.

Dead I knew.

I slowed but didn’t stop.

A cop was waving traffic past.
No ambulance had yet arrived
but two police cars kept a guard
on the coroner’s new dibs.

One bike was halfway up a wall
          the front wheel still spinning.
The other, folded over like a half-left sandwich,
grew like sculpture in the middle of the road
and blossomed with the red of one of them.
I didn’t know which one.

Looking back
from further up the hill
I saw one cop strike up some flares.
Still no sirens in the distance.

Traffic now crawled up behind me
slowly till we hit Mulholland
and the other side.

Down below was Christmas
as it always is.
Searchlights.
Perhaps a used-car lot
        was opening
or another shop
with shiny motorcycles.

The evening paper
in the driveway once again.
I picked it up
before I parked the car.

Inside
I sat down with a cup of coffee
and wrote a poem on what it’s like
to miss a falling star.

Perhaps I should have made a wish
on one of many searchlights,
biting at the clouds.
More dependable than stars
         in California.

                                - From "In Someone’s Shadow", 1969

© 1969, 1975, 1978, 1998 by Stanyan Music Group & Rod McKuen. All Rights Reserved
Birthday research by Wade Alexander
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