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A Thought for Today

Meditation is refertilization.

 

TO BEGIN WITH

Thirty days till the election and much of my mail seems to concern things political. Here’s a sampling.

.ASK ROD

BUSINESS AS USUAL

Rod, Don't know about you but I find it very disheartening to see that NOBODY in either party supports gay marriage. Ann

Dear Ann, It’s hardly disheartening or surprising, just business as usual. Both parties have long catered to and courted religious fundamentalists and politicians over the years have learned that a lack of guts where the issue of marriage for committed couples whatever their sexual orientation is not just the best policy for their career advancement, but the only policy.

You know the drill, Candidate X says, “I support equal rights for everyone but marriage should only be between a man and a woman.” Candidate Y goes on, “If God had wanted Adam and Steve . . . blah, blah blah,” same old crap as every Election Day looms. This year the bigots are so panicked but energized that more than one state has a constitutional amendment on the ballet that would limit or strip the rights of certain tax paying individuals. My sample ballot just arrived and here’s how California’s Proposition 8 is described:

8 ELIMINATES RIGHT OF SAME-SEX COUPLES TO MARRY. Changes California Constitution to eliminate the right of same-sex couples to marry. Provides that only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California. Fiscal impact: Over next few years, potential revenue loss, mainly sales taxes, totaling in the several tens of millions of dollars to state and local governments. In the long run, likely little fiscal impact on state and local governments.

A loss of “several tens of millions of dollars” and Governor Schwarzenegger has his hand out to the government for a loan.

The good news, despite millions funded by the proponents of Prop 8 many more millions have been raised and donated by the likes of Brad Pitt, Steven Spielberg, Amy Irving, David Geffen and thousands of folks like you and me who seek to thwart the passage of this mean spirited and anti-humane amendment.

Oh, and please read on, there are far more courageous people than us out there . . . and all they ask is our help on November 4th. As Ever, Rod

LEESA & JANE TIE THE KNOT

Dear Friends, We are so proud to announce that we Tied the Knot here in Californian a week ago Sunday, September 21st. We do not want gifts, but want to share our happy news with our friends and family.

And, if you are inclined, please make a donation to one of the following charities fighting against Proposition 8 (attempting to take away this equal/civil right of all committed couples). This will be on the California Ballot this November 4th:

www.equalitycalifornia.org
www.hrc.org
www.jewsformarriageequality.org

If you are a California voter, please vote NO on proposition 8! If you are not a California voter, make sure your friends and family in California vote NO on prop 8. Thanks and lots of love, Leesa and Jane.


Dear Leesa & Jane, Congratulations. I really can't think of two nicer people who deserve to be happy together more than the two of you. I know you will be and the way you have decided to share the announcement of your commitment with your friends should be an inspiration to everyone. It certainly is to me.

Fighting prejudice wherever and whenever it rears its ugly head is more important than ever. After long deliberation The California Supreme Court in its wisdom decided that two people who love and are committed to each other should be entitled to the state of and the benefits that come with marriage. That should have ended the debate and the controversy but of course it didn't.

In this difficult, demanding and often unfriendly world how anyone can be threatened by love in any form is beyond me but they obviously exist and they propagate otherwise there would be no need to battle Proposition 8 on the California ballot this year.

I am always wary of anything that would amend a proven and workable constitution and an amendment that would legislate people’s feelings toward one another is particularly onerous.

I pride myself on having enlightened fans and friends and I feel sure that posting your letter on my website will do it's small part in helping to defeat the bigoted and mean spirited efforts of those behind California's Proposition 8. Again, Jane and Leesa my heartfelt congratulations on your union and may you live and love together forever. Love, Rod.

THE LOOSER? THE LANGUAGE

"It made my ovaries hurt," said Sharon Anderson.

That was her assessment of the much-anticipated debate between Gov. Sarah Palin and Sen. Joe. Biden.

"If she's elected, I will pray for the health of John McCain every day."

For my part, as a man, I am all for Sarah Palin finding her way to the White House -- as long as she's part of the tour of visitors, and there, in no way, in an official capacity. Here it is, Thursday night, an hour or two following the much-anticipated debate with Sen. Joe Biden and I'm still a bit stunned. Did I hear and see the same event as the "mainstream media" witnessed? That was one of Gov. Palin's gleeful digs she got in as part of her script. Palin thanked the moderator for the chance to talk to the American people, “without filter of mainstream media, telling the people what they just heard.“

The mainstream media -- and that included the savvy Mark Shields and David Brooks on PBS -- told us what we just heard. They quickly praised her colloquialisms, and just about everything else about her. I'm surprised they didn't produce a corsage for her prom dress.

I thought of Ed Asner on "The Mary Tyler Moore Shore" as the curmudgeonly news director Lou Grant: "I hate cute." I gotta tell ya. The words "folksy" and "colloquial" sputtered out of the mouths of the usually judicious commentators. They rolled over for Palin like schoolboys. I couldn't believe it. The English language took a helluva beating Thursday night at the hands of Palin. Never mind that she perpetuates the term "NOOK-yoo-ler." She could be in charge of them. By the way, who are the "Talibani"?

Amid her "Palin stands tall" crap in the NY Post, there were few to question what her messages are all about. How about this one? "We're not killing civilians, we're killing terrorists, and we're spreading democracy."

It was all a matter of how Gov. Palin would perform under the scrutiny after her debacle with Katie Couric and getting a drubbing from TV satirists. You'd think that in the middle of this financial crisis that people would take this encounter a little more seriously than "Dancing with the Stars" but apparently not. Biden got little respect in the post-debate reviews. I thought he came off as sincere.

But he was widely characterized as an elitist, out of touch. His self-restraint was admirable as Palin jumped from one topic to another, ignoring the questions, looking for a window where she could emulate Ronald Reagan. She finally got that inevitable line in: "There you go again."

They are really letting her get away with something that cheap? I guess so. Apparently many Americans admire this slap-down style but it makes little sense. Gwen Ifill deserves praise for her good questions, and keeping her poise. Earlier in the day, Ifill was ambushed by the right-wing "mainstream" Drudge Report by repeating a false report from the NY Post about Ifill not disclosing her book-in-progress about Barack Obama to the producers of the debate. They knew about it months ago. Ah, but that's show business. I had no idea that Americans hated smart people so much.

I thought Palin's performance was so ridiculous, so low-brow, so sloppy, so embarrassing, I figured the GOP operatives were discussing how to drop her from the ticket after the first ten minutes.

Boy, was I wrong.

I am sorry about that. I am sorry for the country, too. I wanted to call 911. Sarah Palin is a clear and present danger. But I am the one who is out of touch -- and that's of small importance. I am sorry for all the smart women in the country, such as Sarah Anderson. I gotta tell ya. Even my ovaries hurt. Bellingham


Dear BB,

Well she didn’t get off totally free. Both Frank Rich and Maureen Dowd nailed her in today’s New York Times. Dowd termed her corny colloquialisms “pompom palaver” and Rich stated, “If she won the debate the Democrats were not the losers.”

And, as if taking a leaf from your letter, Rich titled his column “Pitbull Palin Mauls McCain.” The always-quotable Rich concluded his insightful and telling opinion piece with these two frightening paragraphs:

“So how can a desperate G.O.P. save itself? As McCain continues to fade into incoherence and irrelevance, the last hope is that he’ll come up with some new game-changing stunt to match his initial pick of Palin or his ill-fated campaign “suspension.” Until Thursday night, more than a few Republicans were fantasizing that his final Hail Mary pass would be to ditch Palin so she can “spend more time” with her ever-growing family. But the debate reminded Republicans once again that it’s Palin, not McCain, who is their last hope for victory.

You have to wonder how long it will be before they plead with him to think of his health, get out of the way and pull the ultimate stunt of flipping the ticket. Palin, we can be certain, wouldn’t even blink.”

Incidentally in all the millions of words printed about Our Lady of The Igloo almost forgotten is her college major, Journalism. Cheers, Rod

THE “M” WORD

Rod: How come with all the talk about John McCain’s medical problems no one seems willing to go near the “M” for MENTAL word? I don’t mean things like his not being able to find his way off stage after a speech or slurring his words, but what about the half finished sentences and the repetition of comments he’s just made, often in the same paragraph? Then there are the corrections by aides like Joe Lieberman when he commits an obvious gaff that he himself doesn’t seem to notice. Alan Ostermann

Dear Alan, You are right, it seems like for a while McCain’s mental condition was considered off limits. No more, no less a Republican than George Will has begun to question McCain’s mental faculties and in the article cited above Frank Rich states that unanswered questions of McCain’s health are still “percolating under the radar.”

“Back in May, you will recall, the McCain campaign allowed a select group of 20 reporters to spend a mere three hours examining (but not photocopying) 1,173 pages of the candidate’s health records on the Friday of Memorial Day weekend. Conspicuously uninvited was Lawrence Altman, a doctor who covers medicine for The New York Times. Altman instead canvassed melanoma experts to evaluate the sketchy data that did emerge. They found the information too “unclear” to determine McCain’s cancer prognosis.

There was, however, at least one doctor-journalist among those 20 reporters in May, the CNN correspondent Sanjay Gupta. At the time, Gupta told Katie Couric on CBS that the medical records were “pretty comprehensive” and wrote on his CNN blog that he was “pretty convinced there was no ‘smoking gun’ about the senator’s health.” (Physical health, that is; Gupta wrote there was hardly any information on McCain’s mental health.)

McCain is looking increasingly shaky, whether he’s repeating his “Miss Congeniality” joke twice in the same debate or speaking from notecards even when reciting a line for (literally) the 17th time (“The fundamentals of our economy are strong”) or repeatedly confusing proper nouns that begin with S (Sunni, Shia, Sudan, Somalia, Spain). McCain’s “dismaying temperament,” as George Will labeled it, only thickens the concerns. His kamikaze mission into Washington during the bailout crisis seemed crazed. His seething, hostile debate countenance — a replay of Al Gore’s sarcastic sighing in 2000 — didn’t make the deferential Obama look weak (as many Democrats feared) but elevated him into looking like the sole presidential grown-up.”

From my own standpoint, his judgement in selecting Alaska Annie as his running mate hinted that there might be a few loose steps upstairs.

RM 10/5/2008 First Publication

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Rod's random thoughts Love’s a good friend when you’re walking, but an enemy in traffic.

There is no such thing as an excess of benevolence.

Kindness is often merely an ornament in man, but almost always a major ingredient in what makes women beautiful.

CONFESSION

I am still in love
with everyone I have ever loved.
Why negate that first delight,
devotion, affection,
                    election to care,
even if it ended with recrimination
or convenient quarrel?

Those moments when the sun and
soul collided are as real as the final
                               parting.

Age often leaves you only memories–
but, oh, what sweet and real recollections.

Love arrives and leaves in its own time,
volition. Wishing will not make it come
or go, enhance reality. As reality will.
Never will a dream in or out of being.

Passion is not tempered or deluded–
mine for you and you and you never was.
Or will be. Know I loved you all the way,
and I have no contrition for how I felt
                               and feel.

Thank you for the arms and eyes
                   that never wavered.
Mine always matching yours.

-from A Safe Place to Land, 2001

 
    AND FINALLY

The seasons in our hemisphere are paying little attention to the calendar, heat waves one day, frost the next. Still it’s always good to be alive on an October morning or midnight and to those of you so inclined, sleep warm.

And Happy, Happy Birthday Charlie Halam.

RM Holmby Hills, CA / 6 October, 2008 1:36AM PDST

 
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