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A Thought for Today

The sounds that break the silence are the ones we never hear.

 

Welcome to another week. Am trying to answer mail on Sunday night while watching "The X Files," not easy.

THE SINGLE MAN VIDEO

Dear Rod: I downloaded "The Single Man" video from the Stanyan By Mail site and I really like it. Thank you for providing such a beautiful gift. It seems that you are always giving us something of yourself without any monetary motive, I wish more artists felt the way you do. As far as I know you are the only author to put an entire book online and make it as a free download. What CD is this version of "The Single Man" from? Keep up the good work, what's next? Alan Roamer, New Mexico

Dear Alan, Glad you liked the video and "Caught in the Quiet". It was done by Dwight Michaels & he has a couple more set for posting soon. Another friend, Eric Yaeger, has put tracks from my CD's on MP3 & is going to make them available to me. When he does I'll post selected ones so they can be downloaded. We have a few other surprises in the works as well. Stay tuned. The video version of "The Single Man" is an added track on the "Listen To The Warm" CD. Thanks for your letter, Alan. All the best, Rod.

NEW CAROLS FOR CHRISTMAS

Rod, Got out "New Carols for Christmas" and listened to it while starting to plan this year's Christmas decorations in the new house. That CD is just so wonderful. Took a copy over to the place where I get my nails done and girl called me a few minutes ago and just ooohhhed and ahhhhed over how wonderful it is. She's only 25.

That particular CD just made my Christmas last year and I am sharing lots of copies of it this year. Each song is better than the one before, but I especially like Simple Gifts.

Just wanted you to know how much it means to me. Dwight will tell you I'm not kidding. I think I bought out his supply of that CD.
Dwight says you cooked for Thanksgiving. Hope you had a wonderful time. Love, Rita


Dear Rita, Thanks for the nice words about "New Carols for Christmas." Most Christmas albums are recorded in the spring or summer, not only was this one done near the holiday season, but it was recorded in London. There's nothing more Christmasy than singing with a symphony orchestra & a boy's choir in Merry Old England while the snow is falling outside.

You didn't completely deplete Stanyan's stock of the CD, but you made a major dent in it.

"New Carols" made it to CD a couple of years ago. In the years I worked with LaserLight I produced over fifty Christmas albums by a wide variety of artists. Remind me to have Dwight send you a few of my favorites like "Christmas Music for Guardian Angels," "Noël at the Monastery," "Bah! Humbug," "Christmas with Friends & Lovers" and "The Hollywood Angels" album. Later this week I'll be in the studio mastering the Video & DVD of "Christmas in New England." It won't be out in time for Christmas this year, but it's nice to be working on it during 'the season.'

I'm cooking again for Christmas. I like doing it myself, that way I'm in charge of the leftovers. Had the last of Edward's Famous Mashed Potatoes yesterday (by adding an egg & some parsley} as potato pancakes. Love, Rod

FOR MY SON

Dear Rod, Glad to see you are well and happy. It is always informative to drop by your pages and see how many people you have touched with your work and kindness. I will always appreciate your kindness and advice in London in the spring of 1971; time goes by so quickly.

There is a poem of yours that has always been important to me but I have been unable to locate it and could use your help. I think the name is Watching Children Grow

I would appreciate you printing this poem in one of your Flight Plans. As you see I don't know it word for word, our Irish Setter chewed on your books so they are a bit hard to read. This poem has always stayed in my mind as we watched our children grow
into unique individuals. During our youngest college orientation this fall it really struck home for us that as they have grown to stand apart they are even closer. We know we are truly blessed.

You are in my prayers for your continued happiness and a life filled with love and friendships. Thank you for your help in the search for the poem. Sincerely, Eileen O'Brien White


Dear Eileen, It's always nice to hear from you. Your letter came in a while back, sorry I'm just getting around to answering it.

The poem is entitled "For My Son" and was first published in "Lonesome Cities" in 1968. Here it is.

For My Son

Watching children grow
Is like threatening the ivy
          to climb the garden wall.
You wait for it to happen
you hurry it along with love.
But still you're disappointed
at giving someone life enough
to walk off on their own
and not be carried in your arms.
    You never turn your back - not once,
and yet one day they've grown apart
                                       or taller.
             It's all the same.

Polly put the kettle on we'll all have tea.
Giving love to children
has made us older overnight.

Thanks for asking, Eileen. Hope you and your grown (boy, does that word denote time passing) children are in good spirits and looking forward to the coming holidays. Love from your old friend Rod

AM I A FAN OF ITALIAN OPERA?

Dear Rod, Gee, you made "Sunset Blvd." sound so exciting, will it come to Cleveland do you know?? Or is it limited? I would love to see Petula Clark in that role. I don't get out to many performances, but do not plan to miss Andrea Boccelli here next month. Are you a fan of Italian Opera? Much Love, Randi

Dear Randi, The German and French Operas are always entertaining and many of them contain intelligent and glorious music, but for sheer beauty nothing approaches Verdi and Puccini. Where romantic opera is concerned, Italy rules.

I don't have much in the way of dates for Petula in "Sunset Blvd." past April of 2000. I'd be very surprised if the producers skipped Ohio, unless the show played there earlier this year. I'll find out and let you know. Even if you have to go out of your way a bit to find it, Pet in "Sunset Blvd." is an event not to be missed.

As for Boccelli; talk about a voice made for recording! Many critics have complained about his seemingly 'wooden' personality in person. If he starts to seem that way when you go to see him, try closing your eyes. Affectionately, Rod

UK VISIT

Dear Rod, I saw you perform in Belfast 197?,and Croydon 198? and have waited endlessly for you to return to the UK. I currently live in Sheffield, South Yorkshire, England.

Last year I happened upon a fairly recent CD, with some French material, and it was marvelous. I have written to you through music addresses but without reply, and was a member of your fan club, based in Holland, I think. Through Internet contacts you say you plan to tour, but nothing specific. I read each weekly gig paper to see that you are finally back in the UK, doing what you are here to do. Rod, now is the time. Please let me know where your nearest performance to me is. Regards, Geoff Wilson


Dear Geoff, still no dates for a UK concert, but as of now you're on the mailing list so you'll be advised when I know something more. I've played Croyden several times and even premiered my Piano Concerto there with the Royal Philharmonic.

The first time I played Belfast was quite an experience. Marshal law had been declared because of recent bombings but we filled the theatre to capacity anyway. I'll never forget the electricity as the entire audience joined me in singing "Soldiers Who Want To Be Hero's" and "The Things Men Do."

Hope to see you in or around Yorkshire soon, Geoff. Meanwhile, pray for an English promoter who'll welcome the idea. Cheers, Rod

VOICE OF THE SEA

I have always enjoyed your poetry so very much, and the music of Anita Kerr. who was the voice on the sea? Sandra Stinson

Dear Sandra, the beautiful voice on "The Sea" belongs to the late actor-singer Jesse Pearson. Other than his work with the San Sebastian Strings Jesse is best known for playing the title role in the film version of "Bye, Bye Birdie."

See you tomorrow with more letters and answers. Sleep warm tonight.

                      
- RM 12/5/99 Previously unpublished

notable birthdays Debbie Armstrong o Chelsea Brown o Dave Brubeck o Wally Cox o Alfred Eisenstaedt o Lynn Fontaine o Ira Gershwin o Nikolaus Harmoncourt o Tom Hulce o Joyce Kilmer o Don King o Jonathan King o Joyce Mathews o Agnes Moorehead o James Naughton o Wil Shriner o Ryan White o JoBeth Williams o Steven Wright
Rod's random thoughts The threshold of knowledge is need.

The deeper the water, the higher the watermark.

God gets the best out of us, the rest is up for grabs.

GIFT WITHOUT STRINGS

I'll walk you
just as far
as Christmas Day
and not one hour further,
leaving you to make your way
through the winter and the springs ahead.

A gift I give you
with no ribbon or bright bow
attached to me
or a Christmas contract.
A present of reality
is made from truth
as much as it is shaped from love.

Go forward; straight ahead.
There are no limits on your life
but those barricades
you'll build yourself.

Though I give you only words
to unravel on this Christmas day
and words may not seem
such a pretty present,
if you let them work for you
one day you'll thank me
with a shinning smile
brighter than the one I'm sending
                           out and over
to your young face now.  

                          - from "The Carols of Christmas," 1969, 1971

© 1968, 1969, 1971, 1985, 1999 by Stanyan Music Group & Rod McKuen. All Rights Reserved
Birthday research by Wade Alexander o Poetry from the collection of Jay Hagan
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